Spicy Fantasy playbook

“I'm not in the mood"—we've all either said it or heard it from a partner, right? Endless distractions, time thieves, and nuisances take a toll on our physical bodies and our mental and emotional well-being. With everything that's going on, how DO you get in the mood for s*x?

Enter spicy fantasies, a powerful weapon to help us go from zero to hero, discover new layers about ourselves and our partners, and create the ultimate pleasure and bonding experience. Think of this playbook as a journey you're embarking on with your partner to learn about each other and understand new ways to receive and give pleasure. We'll look at theory and practice and guide you through this new experience.

Although it's a well-known fact that our mental state plays a crucial role in our level of arousal (simply put, our mind makes us feel h*rny) and the quality of our int!mate experiences, the truth is that most of us tend to focus on physical sensations during s*x. We disconnect our minds from our bodies, so when we are in the moment, getting down and d!rty, our attention usually turns to the actions we engage in, the touches we feel, and the physical sensations that accompany them.

S*x should be a complete sensory experience that tantalizes our minds and our bodies. Helping the mind get in the mood and let loose should be a prerequisite for s*x. Spicy fantasies play a key role in helping us get to a mental and physical state where we're fully in tune with ourselves and ready to experience intimacy and pleasure in order to have an all-encompassing orgasmic experience. 

This playbook aims to assist both partners in letting go and unleashing their spicy fantasies. We'll delve into theory to provide a psychological foundation for the power of fantasies, and then concentrate on practicing and developing skills to explore them fully.